Thursday, November 29, 2007

Arrange Vs Love Marraaige

Arrange Vs Love Marriage

Marriage is one of the important transitional phase in the life of a man and women. But the whole set up of marriage has distinct classification Love and arrange marriage. For an evolving society like India, Love marriages are still a taboo. So if you have love marriage it is looked from pessimistic perception from a certain section of the society.
But my objective of writing this piece e is not to put forward what the society thinks, but rather analyze what are the chances of success for an arrange marriage and love marriage.
I am bachelor, so view are based on my observing post married life of couple from both the camps I,e Love and arrange marriage.

I won’t bore with to much of Guru gyan , but the bottom line Love marriage is an informed choice where we know the partner for sometime so the failure or success depend solely on the individual an their ability to gel with rest of family members from both sides. Where as in an arrange marriage it’s the coming together of two families, so the relationship is cemented on wider platform called family. But there is a catch in arrange marriage since we don dot know our partner ,it will be a case of trying and adjust to choice which is not our own or say individual
At the end of the day it is the couple who decide whether they want to have successful marriage life.
God bless all new wed couples.

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